I feel strongly that you need to kiss someone passionately and you always have to think about how you can show them that is different and the memory is lasting. You need to change up the routine. I call it “shock and awe” and you have to capture someone’s attention and really kiss them. Use your hands. Let them know you want them.
Stop them dead in their tracks.
You need to surprise them in the shower.
You need to kiss them on top of the dining room table.
You need to kiss them at red lights in the car.
You need to turn off the burner and grab and kiss them in the kitchen and kiss them when they can’t see you.
My mind is blown at how wonderful it is to kiss someone you just can’t wait to see and be with.
When she is moving around the kitchen getting some stuff ready to cook something… pick her up and put her on the counter.
Tell her again. Kiss her.
Tell her what she does to your insides. How she makes you feel. Tell her the smallest thing that she does that you love. Tell her where you want to go with her to explore. Tell her you want to make a dinner together and listen to music and drink wine on the floor next Friday in the living room. Tell her the last time that you wanted her so bad and you didn’t act on it. Tell her where you were with her and see if she remembers that exact moment.
Don’t forget to kiss her on that counter tho 😉
Sit beside her at dinner and not across from her if you can. Hold her hand. Hold the top of her leg and talk to her intimately. Tell her in public when your inches away from her ear.
Tell her when she is across from you and does not matter where you are. Just tell her now and then. Even if you think she knows. Just tell her again.
be the man you want to be < > be different < > if you have a fresh start in life with someone new < > express yourself and your feelings < > tell her < > never assume she knows < > bookmark your thoughts and plans to surprise her and keep her on her toes < > sometimes “shock + awe” is needed and look for things that inspire you to be different and have those “well that escalated quickly” moments 😉 anywhere + anytime.
inspire her to keep you on your toes
follow the front + the back of the “Rules Of A Gentleman” and life will be good. It’s all you can do is do your part and what happens… happens.
“When sex becomes a production or performance that is when it loses its value. Be mutual. Be loud. Be clumsy. Make noises, be quiet, and make a mess. Bite, scratch, push, pull, hold, thrust. Remove pressure from the moment. Love the moment. Embrace it. Enjoy your body; enjoy your partners’ body. Produce sweat, be natural, entice your senses, give into pleasure. Bump heads, miss when you kiss, laugh when it happens. Speak words, speak with your body, speak to their soul. Touch their skin, kiss their goose bumps, and play with their hair. Scream, beg, whimper, sigh, let your toes curl, lose yourself. Chase your breath; keep the lights on, watch their eyes when they explode. Forget worrying about extra skin, sizes of parts and things that are meaningless. Save the expectations, take each second as it comes. Smear your make up, mess up your hair, rid your masculinity, and lose your ego. Detonate together, collapse together, and melt into each other.” – taken from a tumblr post I re-blogged a long time ago
This came on my dash as words yesterday. I love it. I need it as a small paragraph on the back of a t-shirt with a cool font so people waiting in line at the grocery store can read it silently as they hold their coupon and their cereal. (my thoughts)
I wanted to post something I came across about 3 years ago.
I noticed a post on Tumblr that someone posted. It listed the “Rules Of A Gentleman” on the front and it also listed it on the back some other ones. I re-blogged it on my Tumblr (HERE) I remember posting it on my tumblr and wishing that nobody that knew me would read them.
The rules on the back were a little different than the front. (read them if you want) I did not write them… I just noticed it on Tumblr and wanted to reblog it.
My comments after reading the rules on the back were: “I think if all men would follow the front first… you will attract the right women for you and if you follow the back of the card… life will be good and exciting and worth waiting for the next day and night.”
Everyone should have them inside a double sided frame hanging on your bathroom wall so that you can flip over and read the back if you know it exists and be reminded. I have a double sided frame. 😉
What would you do? Would you do more? Would you do less on that day? Would you spend it alone or would you try and connect with people you don’t talk to or keep it for the people really close to you?
Very interesting little film.
EVERYDAY from Gustav Johansson on Vimeo.