Best Tease Then Kiss In The Movies | Well One Of Them | Junebug in 2005|

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Last night I watched Vicky Cristina Barcelona (2008) and I loved the way Javier Bardem touched Scarlett Johansson’s face before he kissed her. 

It made me think about the tease before the kiss.  Above is how you can fry her brain.

I think I posted this before in GIF’s I made on my phone on this blog before.  I know I posted it on my Tumblr but with over 4,000 posts… it would be hard to find.  Anyways.  Just goofing around on YouTube and I found the opening scene to Junebug which I loved.  For some reason… just love this scene where they meet for the first time and after the art gallery is closed… they kiss for the first time.  I just love the playfulness of them and the tease.  I will add the video soon to this post.

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It’s only 4 minutes long.

Devour Them | Make Your Mark On Them | Kiss Them | Show Them

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I feel strongly that you need to kiss someone passionately and you always have to think about how you can show them that is different and the memory is lasting.  You need to change up the routine.  I call it “shock and awe” and you have to capture someone’s attention and really kiss them.  Use your hands.  Let them know you want them.

Stop them dead in their tracks.

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You need to surprise them in the shower.

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You need to kiss them on top of the dining room table.

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You need to kiss them at red lights in the car.

You need to turn off the burner and grab and kiss them in the kitchen and kiss them when they can’t see you.

My mind is blown at how wonderful it is to kiss someone you just can’t wait to see and be with.

Tell Her

When she is moving around the kitchen getting some stuff ready to cook something… pick her up and put her on the counter.

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tell her.

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Tell her again.  Kiss her.

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Tell her what she does to your insides.  How she makes you feel.  Tell her the smallest thing that she does that you love.  Tell her where you want to go with her to explore.  Tell her you want to make a dinner together and listen to music and drink wine on the floor next Friday in the living room.  Tell her the last time that you wanted her so bad and you didn’t act on it.  Tell her where you were with her and see if she remembers that exact moment.

Don’t forget to kiss her on that counter tho 😉

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Sit beside her at dinner and not across from her if you can.  Hold her hand.  Hold the top of her leg and talk to her intimately.  Tell her in public when your inches away from her ear.

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Tell her when she is across from you and does not matter where you are.  Just tell her now and then.  Even if you think she knows.  Just tell her again.

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be the man you want to be < > be different < > if you have a fresh start in life with someone new < > express yourself and your feelings < > tell her < > never assume she knows < > bookmark your thoughts and plans to surprise her and keep her on her toes < > sometimes “shock + awe” is needed and look for things that inspire you to be different and have those “well that escalated quickly” moments 😉  anywhere + anytime.

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never settle

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inspire her to keep you on your toes

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follow the front + the back of the “Rules Of A Gentleman” and life will be good.  It’s all you can do is do your part and what happens… happens.

When Sex Becomes A Production

“When sex becomes a production or performance that is when it loses its value. Be mutual. Be loud. Be clumsy. Make noises, be quiet, and make a mess. Bite, scratch, push, pull, hold, thrust. Remove pressure from the moment. Love the moment. Embrace it. Enjoy your body; enjoy your partners’ body. Produce sweat, be natural, entice your senses, give into pleasure. Bump heads, miss when you kiss, laugh when it happens. Speak words, speak with your body, speak to their soul. Touch their skin, kiss their goose bumps, and play with their hair. Scream, beg, whimper, sigh, let your toes curl, lose yourself. Chase your breath; keep the lights on, watch their eyes when they explode. Forget worrying about extra skin, sizes of parts and things that are meaningless. Save the expectations, take each second as it comes. Smear your make up, mess up your hair, rid your masculinity, and lose your ego. Detonate together, collapse together, and melt into each other.”  – taken from a tumblr post I re-blogged a long time ago

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This came on my dash as words yesterday. I love it. I need it as a small paragraph on the back of a t-shirt with a cool font so people waiting in line at the grocery store can read it silently as they hold their coupon and their cereal.  (my thoughts)

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Spotify | Playlists | 7PM R&B Old School + Playful Kissing

You can find me here.

 

Downloading the MAC or WINDOWS desktop version is sweet.  Easy to listen to music when you are on the computer at home working and surfing.  Spotify is free.  Other blog posts with posts featuring some playlists can be found here.

Music is sexy and so is the vibe to this playlist.  Perfect for the evening in with someone or even by yourself since it’s nice to think about someone you can’t wait to see and kiss.  This mix has a little vintage feel to it and it goes well with a nice bottle of red and some scented candles.

 

 

the way her skin tastes and her delicious soft curves

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 you have no idea.  maybe you do a little

you don’t see yourself like i see you.  you are strong.  you are soft.  you are incredible.

you are sensual as fuck.

you don’t know how much i soak up the smell of your skin and take my time to burn you into my head.

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so many times i looked at you and wanted to photograph you so you could see yourself the way i see you.

to have you lying there open to me and you allow me to have you so many ways and you feel comfortable in your skin and your mouth is open waiting to be kissed.

lucky lucky lucky man i am to have had a woman with a desire to be kissed and teased.

to lie at your thighs where my chin rests…  only to linger longer and soak up your bliss and glow is such a crazy memory that makes me pause and smile how lucky i am/was.

to see you lying there waiting to be devoured …

the anticipation.

my mouth watered and my hands were ready.

you have no idea.

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